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  • Dating Is A Weighted Scale

    It has become common to use the terms “red flag” and “green flag” to describe someone’s qualities, particularly when developing romantic connections. According to Merriam-Webster, the term “red flag” was first used in 1748 and meant “a warning signal or sign” or “something that indicates or draws attention to a problem, danger, or irregularity.” Dating Continue reading

  • I have a detailed plan to get a phoenix sleeve tattoo on my left arm, which will then merge with the tattoo on my right arm to form a complete back piece. It has a lot of significance, as my life has gone through many changes and reinventions. Continue reading

  • My number priority is to get my home clean before I go to work tonight. I was so exhausted from work the previous night that I couldn’t get off my couch. I binge watched Cold Case and Instagram videos, and ate pizza until I was sick. I wanted to get up, clean, and be active. Continue reading

  • Thing That Make My Head Tilt

    So, one of the apps I use for dating has a feature with a little blue dot next to their name both in the profile and in the messaging system if they are online, and an open circle when they have been on recently. It’s a helpful tool to see if the accounts are still Continue reading

About Me

When did life get so complicated? I started this blog last year after a tough breakup and named it ‘Dating Is A Dumpster Fire.’ The blog was less about the breakup and more about the comically tragic dates that I kept going on. The effort to find a mate has led me down a path of healing from past trauma and becoming my best self. Somewhere along the way, life has thrown more challenges and left me with fewer dating prospects. Perhaps the best version of myself is single with a cat.

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