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Five months ago, I decided to reconnect with a past relationship. This is someone who has a lot of history with me and would occasionally message me, either through DMs or emails. To give some context, depending on who I’m with, I can either have an anxious or avoidant attachment style. With this particular person,
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There is something to be said for regular screenings for sexually transmitted infections when dating and going to be sexually active. Recently, I saw accidently saw a copious amount of amateur porn on a date’s phone. At the time, I felt like he was gaslighting me when he blamed me for seeing it when I
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When writing a dating profile, think of it like a resume. Apart from the obvious, putting not enough information, sometimes there is too much information. People can have a mixture of their best qualities while listing some of the things they are working on. Here are some of the common mistakes that I see in
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About Me
When did life get so complicated? I started this blog last year after a tough breakup and named it ‘Dating Is A Dumpster Fire.’ The blog was less about the breakup and more about the comically tragic dates that I kept going on. The effort to find a mate has led me down a path of healing from past trauma and becoming my best self. Somewhere along the way, life has thrown more challenges and left me with fewer dating prospects. Perhaps the best version of myself is single with a cat.
Life Is A Dumpster Fire 